Socializing Your New Puppy: Do's and Don'ts For Bringing Up a Best Friend

Puppies grow into dogs and if all goes well, become four-legged friends we can count on for companionship and joy, for a very long time. At least, that's what we'd all like, right?

It doesn't just happen, though. It all starts with early and positive socialization. Here are some Do and Don't Tips to help you and your new pup develop the relationship and mutual respect you both want.

Walking a puppy is a good way to socialize your new pup. However, avoid dog parks during the first weeks of his life, to avoid disease. Do not let him sniff feces or play with dogs that may be aggressive. Do not impose on people to socialize with your dog. Ask for their help first. Not all people like dogs or animals—even cute little puppies. By the same token, take some care with strangers that may want to hold or come in close to “ooh and aah” over the puppy. Start with small groups of people or other animals at first. When he is comfortable with those situations, you can move on to larger groups.

Don’t leave your puppy alone for long periods of time. Dogs like to be around people. They desperately want to be part of your “pack.” Leaving him alone will induce feelings of abandonment and may even lead to more aggressive behaviors when you finally do return. Metro Mutts has a Mutt Break plan for new puppies, which includes walking if you cannot always be there for your puppy. If a dog does not get out often enough he will be overexcited when he does, leading to bad behaviors like jumping on people; pulling on the leash; or chasing after objects or other dogs.

Ask for help…if you need it. If your socialization regime is not working or if you just aren't sure, ask about puppy classes at your local pet shop. It’s a great place to introduce your puppy to other dogs. Metro Mutts partners up with Spot On Training to offer free PlaySpot (puppy play group) for pups from 8 weeks to 6 months. Great opportunity to work on socialization.

Introduce your puppy to his caregivers as soon as possible. Be sure to explain the rules to pet sitters or others who will care for your pup in your absence. If they let him get away with behavior you don’t approve of, it may slow down his socialization process. They should use the same rewards and reinforcements that you use, for consistency. If your puppy’s caregiver is more knowledgeable about dogs and puppies than you, be sure to seek and follow their guidance.

Your puppy likes companionship…and friendly pats on the head…and being included in your daily activities. Dogs are highly social animals. If you can take your pup with you, do so; increasing a young dog's awareness of the world goes a long way in his socialization. If you isolate him too much; if you don’t interact with him; your puppy will regress and you may never be able to gain his trust back.

Treat your puppy with respect…and demand the same from other people and other animals. Never expose him to torment or aggression from other dogs or other people either. Reward him for good behavior. Be aware of his moods; learn how he lets you know he’s fearful or not happy about a situation. Don’t tie him up outside and ignore him. Be respectful and he will reward you with a faithfulness and companionship you will find nowhere else.

Sounds like a Best-Friend kind of thing to us. Let us know how it goes, and bring your pup with you to Metro Mutts so we can get to know him or her, too!